怕不主动联系，对方就会忘记自己的存在;怕不回复短信，对方的心就丢了。

Afraid that if you don't take the initiative to contact, the other party will forget your existence; Afraid not to reply to the text message, the other party's heart will be lost.

然而，有几个人，看到美丽的背后是不是容易?

However, there are a few people, is it easy to see the beauty behind it?

理解对方，才能告诉对方

Only when you understand each other can you tell each other

看到你在他的给予中快乐，他会感到满足和喜悦。他会觉得你们的关系越来越好了。

He will feel satisfied and happy to see you happy in his giving. He'll think your relationship is getting better and better.

和谐健康和满足是幸福家庭的基础，也是家庭中最重要的东西。

Harmony, health and satisfaction are not only the basis of a happy family, but also the most important things in the family.

你知道，总有人。

You know, there's always someone.

当然，存钱不是一件容易的事情。它需要很强的自制力和对人生的理性规划。

Of course, saving money is not an easy thing. It requires strong self-control and rational planning of life.

你对这些人越宽容越体贴，他们就越咄咄逼人。

The more tolerant and considerate you are to these people, the more aggressive they will be.

幸运的是，只要身后有家人，就算走远了，也会有自己的落脚点。

Fortunately, as long as there is a family behind us, even if we go far, we will have our own foothold.

有智慧，会品味人，懂得选择朋友和朋友，懂得与恶意的人保持距离，这样自己的生活就不会受到它的影响。

Have wisdom, will taste people, know how to choose friends and friends, and know how to keep a distance from malicious people, so that their life will not be affected by it.

通常，他会在你背后诽谤你。如果他不能破坏你的成功，他就会破坏你这个人。

Usually, he will slander you behind your back. If he can't destroy your success, he will destroy you.