在《围城》中，钱钟书先生写道，婚姻是一场围城。如果婚姻是要有一个爱你、呵护你的人，不想看到你的痛苦和眼泪，甚至为你的微笑付出一切，那么这里就是幸福城的大门。

In Fortress Besieged, Mr Qian Zhongshu wrote that marriage is a fortress besieged If marriage is to have a person who loves and cares for you, doesn't want to see your pain and tears, and even gives everything for your smile, then this is the gate of the city of happiness

忆昔通常喜欢阅读肮脏的爱情故事和了解名人的八卦。

I used to like to read dirty love stories and gossip about celebrities

请不要在我面前悲观，我不喜欢这种感觉!

Please don't be pessimistic in front of me I don't like this feeling!

一个女人的外貌也是她生活的明信片，是她生活水平和收入实力的象征。

A woman's appearance is also a postcard of her life and a symbol of her living standard and income strength

每个司机听到她要去的地方后，都摇摇头，立即离开。地点太远了，而且那条路上的人不多，司机要赶路，非常不经济。她别无选择，只能跺着高跟鞋，把包放在头上，向停着的公交车走去。

When each driver heard where she was going, he shook his head and left immediately The location is too far away, and there are not many people on that road The driver has to hurry, which is very uneconomical She had no choice but to stamp her high heels, put her bag on her head and walk to the parked bus

我如此想念某人，以至于我不知道如何问他们，我不知道如何联系他们。

I miss someone so much that I don't know how to ask them, I don't know how to contact them

在男人的心目中，奉献和专注应该是在 "我爱你 "的阶段。否则，如果他不再爱了，专心致志和专注就不会唤醒他的责任感。